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  The ultimate survival guide for shutting down bullies & rude people

Verbal Self Defence Made Easy is our complete, system to shut down people who insult and embarrass you, so you can stress less, and enjoy life more.

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  • Do you have someone in your life who makes insulting comments and leaves you speechless?
  • Are you clueless about what to do when they publicly embarrass you?
  • ​Not sure how to put boundaries in place with pushy family and friends?
  • ​Can't remember what to say when someone makes a snide put down?
If you answered YES to any of
these questions, the 
Verbal Self Defence Made Easy Bundle can help you! 
Take the stress out of dealing
with difficult people
 Verbal Self Defence Made Easy is a complete 3 part system for how 
to stand up to a verbal bully for adults and teens.
In this program, you’ll learn quick and easy ways to stand up to a verbal bully 

  • A simple but extremely effective program to tackle the difficult people in your life, turn those verbal snipers into meek and quiet individuals with our simple system.
  • Includes step-by-step script and action plan to know what to say in any possible situation. We don’t just tell you what to do. We show you why the strategies are effective, how to implement them, and how these strategies have personally transformed lives.
  • ​Printable worksheets will help you take immediate action, while the useful tips and step-by-step instructions give clear direction.
I was verbally attacked for no reason and publicly humiliated in front of 
my kids and 20 families at the planetarium!
I was verbally attacked for no reason in public at the planetarium in front of 20 families, including my own two children. I didn’t have my wedding ring on and a man was yelling at me, “I can see why your husband left you.“ It was one of the most embarrassing and mortifying moments of my life! I kept thinking for two weeks, “I should have said….“

After I was verbally attacked by a stranger I realized I just didn't know how to verbally defend myself. I also had one close relative who was always putting me and others down. I needed to find a solution to shut this person up and stand up for myself.

I read several books but the traditional methods didn't work and I became really frustrated. 

I started a web site site to help people deal with verbal bullies because so many people had this problem. Running the web site, I Should Have Said...,I found out from our readers exactly what works when it came to shutting down verbal bullies. 

Now I know the perfect things to say in any situation and how to say it.

Digital Bundle

An easy system to follow that shuts down bullies and 
leaves them speechless.

QUICK WINS all laid out for you. We take all the guesswork out of it!
Bryn Connor knows firsthand how stressful dealing with a verbal bully can be. Through personal stories, amazing lists, and practical action plans she will inspire you to find the right words to any situation. Get real life advice from someone who has been there. Bryn will help you: overcome the destructive cycle of just taking verbal abuse from someone who thinks that they can make snide comments, put you down and embarrass you publicly. Learn to recognize why people feel comfortable making inappropriate comments towards you and how you can get it to stop. Over 150 pages in each book that show what to say in specific situations.
Two workbooks that walk you through uncovering the problem and the easy steps you need to take to stand up to a verbal bully. Simple Instructions that are easy to follow. You will learn the process of being ready for a verbal assassin and tips and tricks to prepare for the verbal bully. Develop a concrete plan for the next time you are verbally ambushed by someone in your life.
Find out what you can say to close friends and family members to get them to back off but still keep the relationship on good terms. A detailed Cheat Sheet for each book walks you through what to say no matter what the situation. We provide a list of things to say for your target audience ranging from mild, medium and strong in response. Everything is spelled out for you so you don't have to ever worry about finding the right words to say ever again. Dozens of clever replies from I Should Have Said and other sources.
And, we have exclusive bonuses you can't 
get anywhere else!
Super Cool Bonus #1
Body Language
Discover body language and how it can benefit you. Have you ever wished you could ready body language signals better and notice those subtle clues that offer you a wealth of information about the person you are talking to? Now's your chance.
Super Cool Bonus #2
Scripts for Difficult Conversations
Easy to follow scripts for the most common difficult conversations that people have. You can use the scripts to guide a difficult conversation or they can be used as email templates. Don't waste hours of your time figuring out what to say.
Super Cool Bonus #3
How to Stop Being Shy
If you're one of those people who have a hard time talking to new people or feel your face turning red when you are faced with talking to others, you are most likely shy. But don't worry help is on the way!
Don't wait, grab your Verbal Self Defence Made Easy Bundle at the discounted price of just $23 today!
Money Back Guarantee
We are confident that you are going to love Verbal Self Defence Made Easy, but if for any reason you are not satisfied, we do provide a 
30-day happiness guarantee.
But Don't  Wait
This offer will only be available for the next few hours at this price, so don’t let this opportunity pass you by…

The Verbal Self Defence process is easy to use and implement it right away.

And with this fast-action program, you’ll start to see those results in 2 hours.

Sign up soon, before the offer ends!

-Bryn Connor
Here’s A Recap Of
When You Purchase The AMAZING Offer!
  • ​Snappy Comebacks for All Situations, workbook & cheat sheet ($30 Value)
  • ​Comebacks that Stop Bullies in Their Tracks, workbook and cheat Sheet ($30 Value)
  • ​​How to Learn Body Language ($19 Value)
  • ​​Scripts for Difficult Conversations ($19 Value)
  • ​How not to be Shy ($9.99 Value)
Total Value: $109
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Is a printed version available?

This is a digital product, you will not receive a physical copy of the books in the mail.  The two main books are in EPUB format and pdf format.the PDF. The books  are easy to  print easily on standard 8.5 x 11 inch paper. Note printing on a laser printer will be much cheaper than an inkjet. 

What forms of payment do you accept?

We accept Visa, MasterCard, American Express, and, Discover through our Stripe payment processor.

Can I get a refund?

We are confident that you are going to love Verbal Self Defense Made Easy, but if for any reason you are not satisfied, we do provide a 30-day happiness guarantee.

I live outside the US. Can I still purchase?

Yes, however your bank may charge additional fees.

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