I know exactly how horrible it feels when you have someone pick on you but you don't know how to stand up for yourself.
I was verbally attacked for no reason in public at the planetarium in front of 20 families, including my own two children.
I didn’t have my wedding ring on and a man was yelling at me, “I can see why your husband left you.“ It was one of the most embarrassing and mortifying moments of my life! I kept thinking for two weeks, “I should have said….“
After I was verbally attacked I realized I just didn't know how to stand up for myself.
I grew up as the only child of a narcissistic single parent who continually made cruel and humiliating comments towards me publicly.
I needed to find a solution to shut this person up when she tried to shame and embarrass me. I had to learn what to say and how to say it respectfully, to repspond in a way that worked for me.
I started a web site to help people deal with verbal bullies because so many people have issues with difficult relatives, and the challenging people in their lives.
Running the web site, I Should Have Said..., I found out from our readers exactly what works when it came to shutting down someone who makes cruel and insulting comments.
Now I know the perfect things to say in any situation and how to say it.
My readers kept asking me for help dealing with the difficult people difficult people in their lives. That’s when I created the bundle to help others stand up for themselves with confidence.
Go from feeling crappy to confronting your tormentor with Snappy Comebacks.
You'll learn how to stand up for yourself and discover why people feel comfortable making inappropriate comments towards you. We'll teach you how to overcome the destructive cycle of just taking put downs from someone who thinks they can make snide comments, and embarrass you publicly.
You'll be shocked to learn how simple it is to stand up for yourself without being a JERK.
The magic behind standing up to someone is knowing exactly what to say and how to say it. Our easy to follow workbook scripts, exercises and step by step instructions will make shutting down a verbal assassin a breeze.
You will dramatically shortcut the path to getting difficult people to stop bothering you, and shut down rude people the easy way.
Our cheat sheets will transform you into one of those quick witted people who knows the perfect thing to say. You'll learn exactly what to say to close friends and family members to get them to back off but still keep the relationship on good terms. Everything is spelled out for you so you don't have to ever worry about finding the right words to say ever again.
If you've struggled to stand up for yourself, these cheatsheets are a MUST!
Affirmations for confidence, are a great way build up your self esteem and self worth when they are repeated over-and-over. These will not be the only steps you want to utilize to build your confidence, but they are an important part of the puzzle that is your self esteem. Use the affirmations again and again to build up your confidence muscle.
Find out from Bryn firsthand about using verbal self defense with the people in your life. She will share how others have used the program to turn relationships around, set boundaries and get people to stop picking on you.
Bryn will give you her best tips and tricks – and you’ll never struggle with responding to snarky comments ever again.
Ever wonder whose got your back? The data doesn't lie, The Relationship Evaluator will show you the big picture overview of your relationships. You'll see clearly if someone has been a great friend or less than supportive. Looking at the data shows if you are putting your time into the right relationships. This will provide so much clarity – that you’ll never question who has your back ever again.
Life is full of ups and downs. What’s important is you do not know how to give up. Instead, you try to see the bright side of life and perceive life in a positive way. You have to understand that your perception about life has a great impact on your well-being and health. Being positive will help you eliminate negative self-talk and take control of your life. You will be able to see life with all the possibilities instead of the obstacles and worries that it offers.
I am totally AMAZED by this bundle. I have family members who say backhanded compliments and invalidate my emotions all the time. I’ve never been good at comebacks because I’ve never PRACTICED them! (It sounds obvious, but to someone who’s not used to standing up for themselves, it wasn’t.) This bundle gives tons of real life examples and walks you through everything in the workbooks.
I love that I’m finally learning how to practice verbal comebacks and start standing up for myself.
– DAWN P
Before I bought this program I would have people say mean things and I wouldn’t know what to say until 5 or 10 minutes later, or even the next day. As I got the program, it was like lifting weights and building a muscle, I would have 3 or 4 replies ready that worked really well. It made a big transformation for me using the comebacks against bullies and interfering relatives.
– JASON F
The books have been great, they have really helped me overcome situations at school. There were some kids who gave me a hard time and after using the comebacks they stopped bothering me because they know I will say something back that will embarrass them.
– OLIVER S.
This bundle is amazing but I’m so mad! I’m mad I didn’t have it sooner. Don't be like me and get this ASAP! I could have used
this book a few years ago when I was working with some very difficult (and strange) people. Like some of you, it’s not that I didn’t want to stand up for myself but I would be caught off guard or blindsided by how outrageous and rude some people can be. I think this bundle gives you some great material so much so that you'll never be caught off guard again. Now that I have the information and comebacks, I feel a lot more confident and won't be caught off guard again.
– AUDREY W
Wow! A completely comprehensive package that will help in EVERY situation. I couldn’t believe how much was included. I think everyone has someone in their life that may try to be rude and this has tons of comebacks that can be used. I especially liked the Cutting out Negativity Pack that helps weed out the positive people from the negative and how it impacts your life. In an age where kids are being bullied often, this will help as a parent to give advice and protect your child Thumbs up! This is worth the money and something that can be used again and again as a great reference.
– NIKKI R
Wow, this really works! I have used the comebacks on a rude person and the first time in my life they have backed off.
– Tracy LC
Verbal Self Defense Made Easy will show you the exact steps to shut down people who don't respect boundaries.
Using practice scripts you will be prepared for anyone or any situation.
With our lists of hundreds of great responses, you will be the person who always knows the perfect thing to say!
Our system will give you the confidence to show up in the world in a new way.
This is a digital product, you will not receive a physical copy of the books in the mail. The books are in EPUB format and pdf format. The workbook and cheat sheet are in pdf format. The books are easy to print on standard 8.5 x 11 inch paper. Note printing on a laser printer will be much cheaper than an inkjet.
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Absolutely, it’s worth it!
The practical tips and ideas found in the Verbal Self Defense Made Easy Bundle will literally pay for themselves within a day of applying them.
We promise that you will not find a better, more practical, and more comprehensive resource at a lower price.
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As soon as you purchase the bundle, you’ll be redirected to a link to download it. If you don't see it, send me an email at bryn@ishouldhavesaid.net and I can help you out.
The Verbal Self Defense Made Easy Bundle is for anyone looking for help responding to difficult people, and getting a better handle on their relationships.
The practical tips and actionable steps are applicable whether you are single or married, and whether you are in your twenties, thirties, forties, or beyond.
The bundle is only available in digital PDF and EPUB format. All pages are printer friendly and can be viewed and downloaded on your computer, tablet, or digital phone.
The Verbal Self Defense Made Easy Bundle is for anyone looking for help responding to difficult people, and getting a better handle on their relationships.
The practical tips and actionable steps are applicable whether you are single or married, and whether you are in your twenties, thirties, forties, or beyond.
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